When it comes to making new friends, it can be harder than dating.

It’s a totally different kind of expectation when it comes to meeting cool chicks that you just want to hang out with.

Here are some hints when it comes to scoping out new gal pals …

• Throw out all expectations. We are far too hard on ourselves, and we are our own worse critics.  Half the time what you’re thinking isn’t anywhere accurate to reality, so let it go.  

• Don’t stress out about it. If they don’t like you for who you are, forget them. You want real people you connect with, and real friends. Changing who you are to accommodate those around you is never a good thing. You’re not being true to yourself, and down the road, they’ll only call you out on it. It’s best to go out, have fun, do your thing, and be yourself. Talk about what you want to talk about, and share what you know. Stop with the pressure — it’s not worth it.

• For the most part, people just want someone to hang out with. A lot of people have many acquaintances but very few good friends.  Think about it that way, and you’ll be OK in life.   

Source: Yahoo Shine